Monthly Archives: October 2016

I didn’t ask you to like me

I get it, I really do. I’m outspoken. I say what’s on my mind and I’m not shy about it. I don’t live in a world of sunshine and daisies and I don’t pretend that I’m something I’m not. That makes YOU uncomfortable. I’m comfortable with me though. I’m sorry you aren’t. But here’s the thing, I didn’t ask you to like me, I didn’t ask you to be my friend. That doesn’t mean that I’m not happy you are my friend, but it doesn’t give you the right to try and change me.  It doesn’t mean you can tell me who I can or cannot talk to or when.

If you don’t like that I post controversial things on my facebook page, then unfriend or hide me. But don’t tell me that using the word fuck three times in one post makes me sound like trailer trash. Here’s the deal, I don’t like that you post every recipe that you find nor do I like it that you share lies about our POTUS and I certainly don’t like it that you support a rapist. But here’s the deal, instead of posting on your wall or calling you, I’ve hidden you from my news feed. Because I didn’t want to hurt your feelings.

And you over there that decided that the “country is a church”. Here’s a thought for you. You aren’t a christian. You are the farthest thing in the world from a christian. I could say a LOT of really mean things about you here because I found out some really interesting things about you. However, unlike you, I won’t. I understand that you are mentally ill, that’s why you decided to tell me that since I didn’t believe like you that I deserved to be beat and raped as a child. I hope you get help. I really do. And I hope that you don’t get custody of your children back until you do get help. It’s best for them. Because really, if you believe that I deserved to be treated the way I was treated because I don’t believe like you do, what would happen to your daughters if they decided they didn’t believe the way you do.

What this all boils down to is simple. This is my blog, it’s my facebook page, it’s my twitter feed, if you don’t like what I post, then unfriend me, don’t follow me, don’t read what I write. It’s okay. I’ll be alright and so will you. Freedom of speech is great. Its guaranteed by our Constitution. Is my speech always pretty, nope it’s not. Is it how I feel, yep it is. I’m sorry if I’m too honest or real for you. I’m sorry that you want to live in a world of sunshine and daisies. I’ve never been lucky enough to know what that world is like, but honestly it sounds kinda boring. I’m not saying that everything has to be a battle or a controversy but it’s not always happy go lucky either. Life is real, it has it’s ups and it’s downs, we have good days and bad. I can promise you this, as your friend I will be there for you during those good days and those bad. And I will never look down on you when you are having a bad day or when you feel the need to scream about something, even if I don’t agree with it. I will have your back. THAT is what friendship is about, not trying to change someone.

Locker Room Banter? Nope, sexual assault. Presidential Pedophile Trump


Trump: Yeah, that’s her. With the gold. I better use some Tic Tacs just in case I start kissing her. You know, I’m automatically attracted to beautiful — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything.

These comments were directed towards Arianne Zucker.  Who Trump was going to be co-starring with on Days of Our Lives, a long running soap opera on NBC. One I’ve watched since I was a small child.

Trump: . And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything.

Bush: Whatever you want.

Trump: Grab ’em by the pussy. You can do anything.

Bush: Uh, yeah, those legs, all I can see is the legs.

Trump: Oh, it looks good.

Bush: Come on shorty.

Trump: Ooh, nice legs, huh?

Bush: Oof, get out of the way, honey. Oh, that’s good legs. Go ahead.

Yes, Arianne Zucker is beautiful, yes, she has very nice legs, but does she deserve to be talked about like she’s a piece of meat? And the first part of the conversation on the bus, the married woman that Trump was making the moves on Nancy O’Dell.

This is a man that is running for the highest political office in America. Is this a man we want in charge of laws affecting our children? Not just our daughters, but our sons too. What he is talking about in that conversation is the very definition of sexual assault. It is against the law. PERIOD. It’s not something that an apology can cover up. But we are living in a country where you can rape a woman behind a dumpster and only get six months in jail but only have to serve three months. We are clearly living in a country where if old white men have their way, women and girls will NOT matter. And it’s been this way for a very long time.

How do I know this, because I am a fifty-three year old woman who was groped by an old man when I was 11. My mother told me to be nice to him and let him, he gave her money. He also gave me money. I didn’t know it was wrong. I was a child. I was repulsed by it but compared to the other things that had happened in my life, this old man groping me and giving me money was the least of my worries. And I knew that if I didn’t let it happen, my mother would beat the hell out of me. Sex didn’t happen, but the old man did grope my boobs and my pussy. This was over forty years ago. Nothing has changed. Men are still doing it.

And what about the sexual assault case that is pending against Donald Trump and Jeffrey Epstein?  Raping and threatening a 13 year old child? Really? Epstein has already spent time in jail for sex with a minor. He’s known as the “Billionaire Pedophile” and he’s a friend of Trumps.

Is this really a man that we want running a country….ANY COUNTRY? Hell this isn’t even a man I would want running a business. He talks about how Hillary belongs in jail, he belongs UNDER the jail. He is a vile human being.

He believes that woman who have legal abortions should be punished, he believes that people who have been cleared of crimes by DNA are guilty and he loves to deny what he says moments after he says it.

Wake up and smell the coffee. This is one coke addict we don’t need.